You just found a stray puppy or kitten, or maybe you’ve just adopted a newly weened puppy or kitten from a shelter or breeder. Now what do you do?! Either way, if Mama’s not in the picture now, you need to help this little one feel safe and secure. Puppies and kittens are cute, adorable, huggable, snuggable, and fun, but they still are young and delicate and desperately missing their mama. You’re wondering if you’ll be able to comfort her as she begins to let go of the memory of her natural mama and starts seeing you as her family now.

Of course you can!  🙂

The baby has just arrived at her new home with you, and you’re happy and excited. But her mama’s not there with her, and she’s feeling vulnerable and afraid. She doesn’t really know you yet, and trust takes time to grow. You need to fill that gap for her in the meantime, reassure her, comfort her, to help her grow up happy and well adjusted. Her wellbeing needs to be priority one-more important right now than how cute and entertaining she is.

If your little one doesn’t get this basic comfort at the start, she could grow up to be neurotic or ill-behaved. And neurotic and ill-behaved pets eventually end up abandoned at the shelter, or God forbid, even out on the streets. But let me encourage you-that won’t happen to you, because your heart is so filled and overflowing with love for this little furball, and you will put all that love to work protecting and taking the best care of her. So, put on your Mama hat and here are several tips you can start using right away.  🙂

First, Be Present.

Just like having a human baby, raising a furry youngster is not a part-time gig. You are on-call 24/7 just the same and need to take that commitment seriously, for the long-term.

Okay, so the last thing you want to do is put Baby off by herself. She needs your physical company, your touch. Whenever you’re at home, be next to her, touching her, letting her know you’re paying attention, and she’s safe and loved. Not the kind of hovering love that feels overly needy and worrysome. But the kind of love that says, hey little bambino, I see you, let’s hang together.

If you get busy and feel tempted to put her in a crate so you can vacuum or pay bills, etc., here’s a better option: put her in a sling or backpack and “wear” her while you work. Your body warmth, your scent, your heartbeat, your pulse, and your movement will comfort her and she’ll feel safe, connected, and loved. So, even though you’re focused on something else, you’re still present and comforting and being a good Mama, and getting your chores done at the same time.

NOTE: This practice also works beautifully to comfort smaller senior pets that may be blind or otherwise disabled and unsure of their surroundings.

What About When I Have To Be Gone?

Probably you work outside the home, so Baby will have to be without you for a good chunk of time every day, unless you plan to bring in a petsitter for her. A winning idea is to put an old-fashioned tick-tock clock next to her crate. The ticking will imitate Mama’s heartbeat. If you don’t have a tick tock clock, then set your stereo or tv on a station that plays only nature sounds. Set the volume down low so that it feels soothing to her, and doesn’t agitate.

VERY IMPORTANT: also put a blanket with your scent on it in her crate for her to snuggle up in. She’ll feel like you’re there with her. Your pajamas, a tee shirt, whatever. Something you slept in all night, or wore all day, so your scent is heavy on it. Change the item up every day to keep your scent strong, and don’t let it fade away. The benefit of this tip cannot be over-stated.

Bath Time.

If you’ve ever watched a Mama cat or dog groom her babies, you can see how it comforts the little one. You can easily imitate Mama’s grooming by using a damp cloth to massage Baby. Focus on Baby’s eyes, nose, mouth, ears, and bottom, just like her biological Mama does. Massage gently in a repetitious motion and Baby won’t know the difference between her real Mama and her new human Mama.

Sing To Baby.

While you’re imitating Baby’s biological Mama, you can “sing” to Baby, too. I’ve found that babies are super comforted and peaceful when I put my face against them and hum softly into their skin. It mimics purring just like their first Mama. It works with kittens and puppies both. I rub my face against their skin, back and forth, while I hum real soft and low. And in a minute Baby’s eyes become droopy and Baby nods off to sleep because she feels safe and sound with you. Avoid using a shrill, high-pitched voice when you talk to her.

Bed Time.

Don’t leave Baby in a laundry room or outside or wherever. She’s your family now. Bring Baby into your room with you. Put her crate as close to your bed as possible. Talk to her. Reach down and pet her to let her know you’re with her and watching over her. Whatever she needs to feel comforted–give her.

If Baby is super tiny, be cautious about having her sleep in bed with you initially, unless you’re a really light sleeper and can “sleep with one eye open” so you don’t accidentally roll over on her, or so she doesn’t fall of the bed. If her crate or carrier is small enough to put up on the bed next to you, that would be ideal.

These are just a handful of tips to get you started as a devoted new Mama. Hopefully they get your creative juices flowing and you can think of more ideas that will help you comfort and reassure your new little one.

I wish the very best for you and your new family.  Enjoy her in happiness and good health!   🙂

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God Bless and Happy Pet Parenting!

With love and good wishes,
jeannie.   ?

About jeannie:  I’ve been pro-actively involved in pet rescue all of my life. I founded Milagro Senior Pet Refuge© (Phoenix) in 1998, and BareFootPets (TM) in 2008.  Animal welfare has always been and will always be my heart’s work. If my only legacy is that I save a handful of precious souls that would not survive otherwise, I’m good with that.

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Always Harness Your Dog In The Car.

Two reasons. First and obvious is for the safety of the pooch. He’s safely anchored should you have to stop fast. He’s safely anchored and won’t fall out the window if he leans too far. But also think of this: if, God forbid, you’re in a car accident, first responders may not be able to get to you if your dog is loose in the car. If he’s injured and freaked out, he may try to protect you and threaten to bite anyone who comes near. Those precious minutes that first responders have to spend restraining your dog instead of getting you out of the car and to the hospital could mean life or death to you. Pretty sobering thought, isn’t it. Harness your dog–it’s best for both of you.

Jenny-Girl and Tyler Safely Harnessed and Enjoying a Ride.   🙂

If one of your reasons for not harnessing your dog in the care is he’s small and can’t look out the window if you buckle him in, then consider a booster seat.  You can see in the photo that I have a lovely pink pleather booster seat that fits 2 or 3 small dogs together at one time. They can see everything outside and they totally love it! The boosters are lightweight, buckle in and out quickly and easily, have tiedowns to attach your dog’s harness securely, and many have a drawer tucked underneath to store leads and water dishes, etc. So check out these options and pick a nice one for your pooch. Don’t take chances with your pet’s wellbeing, especially when there are such easy accommodations to be used.

Carry A Safety Notice In Your Wallet,

next to your license, that says you have pets at home. The safety notice should contain the person’s name who can care for your pets in an emergency. Again if, God forbid, something happens that you can’t get home, this safety note will alert everyone that you have pets at home. Now they’ll know who to call right away. It would be bad enough that you’ve suffered an event that might keep you from getting home. But it would add an extra element of tragedy to a situation if no one knew to go care for your pets until you could get back home to them.

Post A Notice At The Entry To Your Home,

like right by your doorbell, stating how many pets are in your house. My son told me “Mom, when we get called to a house fire, we have no idea what we’re walking into. We can’t save your pets if we don’t know they’re in there.” Omigosh, critical safety tip! Think about it–when firefighters go into burning homes filled with smoke, they have to feel their way around because they can’t see. Pets are freaked out and would be hiding. Firefighters would never know to look for them if they didn’t have a heads-up that the pets were in there. I went a step further and added our veterinarian’s name and phone to my safety post too.

If any of these situations ever happened to me, had I not prepared ahead of time for the safety of my pets, boy would I feel like scum. Knowing these critical safety tips and preparing accordingly is comforting. I know I’ve got my pets’ best interests at heart.

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God Bless and Happy Pet Parenting!

With love and good wishes,
jeannie.   ?

About jeannie:  I’ve been pro-actively involved in pet rescue all of my life. I founded Milagro Senior Pet Refuge© (Phoenix) in 1998, and BareFootPets (TM) in 2008.  Animal welfare has always been and will always be my heart’s work. If my only legacy is that I save a handful of precious souls that would not survive otherwise, I’m good with that.

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