You just found a stray puppy or kitten, or maybe you’ve just adopted a newly weened puppy or kitten from a shelter or breeder. Now what do you do?! Either way, if Mama’s not in the picture now, you need to help this little one feel safe and secure. Puppies and kittens are cute, adorable, huggable, snuggable, and fun, but they still are young and delicate and desperately missing their mama. You’re wondering if you’ll be able to comfort her as she begins to let go of the memory of her natural mama and starts seeing you as her family now.

Of course you can!  🙂

The baby has just arrived at her new home with you, and you’re happy and excited. But her mama’s not there with her, and she’s feeling vulnerable and afraid. She doesn’t really know you yet, and trust takes time to grow. You need to fill that gap for her in the meantime, reassure her, comfort her, to help her grow up happy and well adjusted. Her wellbeing needs to be priority one-more important right now than how cute and entertaining she is.

If your little one doesn’t get this basic comfort at the start, she could grow up to be neurotic or ill-behaved. And neurotic and ill-behaved pets eventually end up abandoned at the shelter, or God forbid, even out on the streets. But let me encourage you-that won’t happen to you, because your heart is so filled and overflowing with love for this little furball, and you will put all that love to work protecting and taking the best care of her. So, put on your Mama hat and here are several tips you can start using right away.  🙂

First, Be Present.

Just like having a human baby, raising a furry youngster is not a part-time gig. You are on-call 24/7 just the same and need to take that commitment seriously, for the long-term.

Okay, so the last thing you want to do is put Baby off by herself. She needs your physical company, your touch. Whenever you’re at home, be next to her, touching her, letting her know you’re paying attention, and she’s safe and loved. Not the kind of hovering love that feels overly needy and worrysome. But the kind of love that says, hey little bambino, I see you, let’s hang together.

If you get busy and feel tempted to put her in a crate so you can vacuum or pay bills, etc., here’s a better option: put her in a sling or backpack and “wear” her while you work. Your body warmth, your scent, your heartbeat, your pulse, and your movement will comfort her and she’ll feel safe, connected, and loved. So, even though you’re focused on something else, you’re still present and comforting and being a good Mama, and getting your chores done at the same time.

NOTE: This practice also works beautifully to comfort smaller senior pets that may be blind or otherwise disabled and unsure of their surroundings.

What About When I Have To Be Gone?

Probably you work outside the home, so Baby will have to be without you for a good chunk of time every day, unless you plan to bring in a petsitter for her. A winning idea is to put an old-fashioned tick-tock clock next to her crate. The ticking will imitate Mama’s heartbeat. If you don’t have a tick tock clock, then set your stereo or tv on a station that plays only nature sounds. Set the volume down low so that it feels soothing to her, and doesn’t agitate.

VERY IMPORTANT: also put a blanket with your scent on it in her crate for her to snuggle up in. She’ll feel like you’re there with her. Your pajamas, a tee shirt, whatever. Something you slept in all night, or wore all day, so your scent is heavy on it. Change the item up every day to keep your scent strong, and don’t let it fade away. The benefit of this tip cannot be over-stated.

Bath Time.

If you’ve ever watched a Mama cat or dog groom her babies, you can see how it comforts the little one. You can easily imitate Mama’s grooming by using a damp cloth to massage Baby. Focus on Baby’s eyes, nose, mouth, ears, and bottom, just like her biological Mama does. Massage gently in a repetitious motion and Baby won’t know the difference between her real Mama and her new human Mama.

Sing To Baby.

While you’re imitating Baby’s biological Mama, you can “sing” to Baby, too. I’ve found that babies are super comforted and peaceful when I put my face against them and hum softly into their skin. It mimics purring just like their first Mama. It works with kittens and puppies both. I rub my face against their skin, back and forth, while I hum real soft and low. And in a minute Baby’s eyes become droopy and Baby nods off to sleep because she feels safe and sound with you. Avoid using a shrill, high-pitched voice when you talk to her.

Bed Time.

Don’t leave Baby in a laundry room or outside or wherever. She’s your family now. Bring Baby into your room with you. Put her crate as close to your bed as possible. Talk to her. Reach down and pet her to let her know you’re with her and watching over her. Whatever she needs to feel comforted–give her.

If Baby is super tiny, be cautious about having her sleep in bed with you initially, unless you’re a really light sleeper and can “sleep with one eye open” so you don’t accidentally roll over on her, or so she doesn’t fall of the bed. If her crate or carrier is small enough to put up on the bed next to you, that would be ideal.

These are just a handful of tips to get you started as a devoted new Mama. Hopefully they get your creative juices flowing and you can think of more ideas that will help you comfort and reassure your new little one.

I wish the very best for you and your new family.  Enjoy her in happiness and good health!   🙂

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God Bless and Happy Pet Parenting!

With love and good wishes,
jeannie.   ?

About jeannie:  I’ve been pro-actively involved in pet rescue all of my life. I founded Milagro Senior Pet Refuge© (Phoenix) in 1998, and BareFootPets (TM) in 2008.  Animal welfare has always been and will always be my heart’s work. If my only legacy is that I save a handful of precious souls that would not survive otherwise, I’m good with that.

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“Properly” is the key word. The ideal age to ween a puppy or kitten is still 12 weeks. Any younger than that, and you put its development at risk–no matter how careful you are. Newborns need Mama’s milk and her presence for those full 12 weeks to ensure their complete development. Mama’s milk builds the newborn’s immune system. Her presence makes him feel safe and secure, and she teaches him how to be a well-adjusted puppy or kitten, without any neuroses.

Before 12 weeks, the newborn is still too young to vaccinate. Without vaccinations yet, the newborn is dangerously susceptible to all manner of health hazards. The reasons to keep the baby with its Mama far outweigh any reason to separate him from her too early. (Obviously, in a rescue situation where Mama may no longer be in the picture, this discussion about weening doesn’t apply.)

Is It Okay To Take My Infant Pet Out In Public?

No No No!! If the little one is less than 12 weeks and hasn’t had its shots yet, you would be putting his tender life in danger by exposing to him to God-knows-what out there without the protection of even his first round of vaccinations. Catching a simple cold or intestinal parasite at his delicate age could literally put his life in danger. Even diarrhea can easily be fatal to a newborn pup or kitten.

For veterinary appointments during this period, KEEP BABY SEPARATED from other pets in the waiting room. They could be there for treatment of respiratory, intestinal, or any manner of infirmity that would be hazardous to your newborn.

Be the responsible and caring parent–Resist Resist Resist the urge to show the little one off until he’s physically ready. You can Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, or text all the photos you want, but DON’T take him out in public until he’s old enough–12 weeks.

Can I Invite People To My Home To Meet The Newborn?

If you do invite folks to your home during baby’s first 12 weeks, be sure they don’t bring their own pets along, and limit people handling him. If you decide to allow someone to handle the newborn, ask them to wash their hands first, and definitely keep it brief. Over-handling the newborn can exhaust him and run his delicate immune system down, making it very easy for him to get sick.

Ideally, no introductions to anyone but family for those first 12 weeks. Sounds like overkill, but much better safe than sorry. You need to put the newborn’s development and his wellbeing first to give him the best start for his little life. Don’t put him at risk just because you’re antsy to show him off. That happy time will come soon enough.  🙂

What To Do If The Infant Starts To Fail.

If you’ve just brought an infant pet into your family, or are preparing for its arrival, here are some important supplies to stock up on: unflavored Pedialyte, Hills Prescription A/D canned food, eye dropper, sub-q fluids, and Vaseline. The A/D is a prescription food–you’ll need to request it from your veterinarian. Same for the sub-q fluids. And your veterinarian can show you how to administer sub-q fluids if you’ve not done it before. The Vaseline is for baby’s little bottom–to prevent chafing if he does get diarrhea.

Watch your newborn very very closely, 24/7, just as you would a human newborn. Stay alert for any signs he might not be feeling well. At the FIRST sign of loose stools or diarrhea, start giving him the unflavored Pedialyte through an eye dropper. This will ensure he stays hydrated, which is critical. If he feels poorly enough that he’s not eating, mix some of the A/D with Pedialyte to make it a bit runny, and hand-feed it to the little one using the eye dropper. This will keep him nourished as he works through the ailment. BE VERY GENTLE feeding him with the eye dropper so that you don’t force food or liquid down his throat wrong.

To ensure baby feels safe and secure and stays comfortably warm, tuck him inside your shirt where he can draw from your body heat, and feel your heartbeat, which will make him feel he’s in his Mama’s protective arms.

Call your veterinarian sooner than later to report the symptoms and get his or her guidance.

Enjoy Your New Infant Pet In Happiness and Good Health!

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God Bless and Happy Pet Parenting!

With love and good wishes,
jeannie.   ?

About jeannie:  I’ve been pro-actively involved in pet rescue all of my life. I founded Milagro Senior Pet Refuge© (Phoenix) in 1998, and BareFootPets (TM) in 2008.  Animal welfare has always been and will always be my heart’s work. If my only legacy is that I save a handful of precious souls that would not survive otherwise, I’m good with that.

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